Episode 48: Fearless Forward
What propels us forward when fears and limiting beliefs threaten to hold us back? Zoe Thompson's journey from an 18-year-old civilian in a police station to a senior leader managing officers provides a masterclass in determination and proving doubters wrong.
Growing up with a father whose mantra was "the bigger they come, the harder they fall," Zoe developed an unstoppable drive that served her well when facing triple bias as young, female, and a civilian in leadership. Her philosophy? "If you tell me I can't do it, you can then watch me do it." This mindset became her superpower in navigating challenges throughout her 20-year policing career.
Our conversation delves into the psychology of fear and how it functions as a distraction from our values. When we're afraid – whether of public speaking or taking on new challenges – our values temporarily recede. But as Zoe explains, "The anticipation anxiety is very real, and the more you stand on the sidelines, the bigger it gets." The solution? Step into action, and watch your values rise as the fear diminishes.
Today, Zoe coaches ambitious professionals who are already successful but recognize that "what got you here won't get you there." Using frameworks like PIPS (Plan, Intention, identity, Performance, Structure) and the KSA bridge (Knowledge, Skills, Action), she helps clients identify what's truly holding them back from their next summit. Her proudest successes? Helping working parents achieve professional excellence without sacrificing family time.
Whether you're facing fear in leadership, career transitions, or personal growth, this episode offers practical wisdom on moving forward with purpose. As Zoe reminds us, "Take the step, take action, and give yourself space to bounce it around and work it through once you're in it, but don't do that from the sidelines."